The Becker twins weighed just 3 pounds each and had a tenuous hold on life when they were born on their family's farm in Meriden on Nov. 9, 1909.
Since then, they have spent every birthday together. With luck, Stafford said, they still will be together on their 100th."I remember that," said Bird, smiling at her sister.While they waited for a lunch that included a caramel cake baked by Bird's daughter, Judy Bray, the twins shared memories of a time when their family slept on mattresses stuffed with dried corn shucks and birthdays were celebrated with burnt-sugar cake in the parlor."We had fur coats, too," Bird said.When their parents' economic prospects worsened in the 1920s, the girls downgraded their hopes of attending Washburn University --- as had their three older brothers --- and instead attended business school in Topeka to train as secretaries. Times turned to their advantage when the twins secured good jobs. They then pooled their money and bought a Model T Ford with a rumble seat for less than $500.Edward Becker wrapped up his tiny daughters, put them in a shoe box by the stove and fed them milk from an eye dropper.Erin Adamson can be reached at (785) 295-1186 or erin.adamson@cjonline.com.Stafford worked as a secretary at Capper Publications until she moved to Washington. Bird worked in the pattern department at Cappers, then worked for the Santa Fe Railway for 40 years.Although Bird rode the Santa Fe to visit Stafford in Washington when she could, the sisters weren't able to consistently spend their birthday together for years. They revived the tradition on their 80th birthday with a party in Topeka.ONLINE: Hear the sisters discuss their birthday and growing up during the Great Depression. cjonline.com"I can see the skillet on the fire with a little water just a poppin'," said Stafford, remembering burnt-sugar cakes.Life set the obstacle of space between the twins, but they almost always kept up on visits. After she married, Stafford moved with her husband to Washington. Bird married and raised her daughter in Topeka.Their mother, Charlotte Becker, was too ill from the delivery to care for them, an infant brother and two older brothers.On Tuesday, Nellie Becker Bird and Louise Becker Stafford celebrated a much more comfortable 95th birthday together at Bird's apartment at McCrite Plaza retirement community in Topeka.
ONLINE: Hear the sisters discuss their birthday and growing up during the Great Depression. cjonline.com